
Yeah, yeah, I know. Nobody makes resolutions at New Year’s anymore. A least not ones they can keep beyond the 31st of January. (Surveys report that 47% of resolution makers can’t keep them until February 1st.)
WHY?
I have some suggestions, tips, and encouragements if you really want to change something in your life/writing in 2022.
From the Hints From Heloise column, I found these believable suggestions.
- Be specific.
- Don’t vow to “Lose weight” but, to Lose 20 pounds by May 1st.
- Don’t vow to “Exercise more” but, to Walk 2 miles a day for 4 days a week.
- Don’t vow to “Write more in 2022” but, to Write 2 chapters, or 2,000 words, or a complete short story or article each week.
2. Then add your answer to the question, “why?”
- Because I’m too young to be heavy and it makes me look matronly.
- Because walking is healthy for me, and the kids (dogs, Hubby) can go with me.
- Because I’m a writer and I want to finish my book and/or publish my work.
- Put these (your) resolutions on 3×5 cards and tape them to your bathroom mirror. Read them aloud to yourself every morning.
- Keep track of your progress.
- Reward yourself when you accomplish each one!
(If you try this, let me know how it works!)
Hey, have you heard this one? “I was going to quit all my bad habits for 2022. But then I remembered: Nobody likes a quitter!”
Here’s a unique take from The Victoria Magazine, letters, Jan/Feb.
Says Wendy J. “Decades ago, a friend and I came up with the idea of “un-goals” instead of resolutions. This gave us permission to give up things we detested! I gave up zucchini. For years I had tried one recipe after another to use the piles of this vegetable that I received from neighbors’ gardens or the market. I finally decided that they all tasted the same because I truly dislike zucchini!”
Do you have something you really dislike and will renounce in 2022?
(Let me know, and I’ll rejoice with you!)
Do you have a (mental) list of what you want to do “someday?” Here are a few examples: (I love #2.)
- Finish the book I’m writing
- Spend a season living abroad
- Read that stack of books I’ve been accumulating
- Add weight training to my workouts
- Plan day trips with my family
- Schedule those _____________ lessons I promised myself I would take
Resolve to move these from the “Someday” to the “In-progress” column.
(Maybe I’ll join you on those lessons!)
From Cathy Baker’s Creative Pauses Facebook group, Dec 31, 2021. Choose a word or two as a theme for 2022. (Easier than a whole resolution.)
There are many websites that can suggest words to you, or give you ideas. Think of your goals/hopes for the New Year, and use these or other sites to help you choose. Some even give you ideas on how to make the word stick for 365 days.
https://elisabethmcknight.com/word-of-the-year-ideas/
(Scroll down to the 100-word list at the bottom, Abundance to Zest.)
https://www.happinessishomemade.net/word-of-the-year-ideas-one-little-word/
(Schroll down to the 150-word, printable, non-alphabetized list.)
OR… for heaven’s sake, we are writers & readers… pick your own. Haha!
(Let me know if you pick one and what it is, or maybe keep it secret.)
Here are some suggestions from the Orange County Register newspaper, on the personal side, with specific fill in the blanks.
- Mend a relationship with _______________.
- Be more kind to _________________.
- Call _______________ whom you haven’t spoken to in a long time.
- Adopt or foster a ___________ (animal) and take good care of it.
(Or sponsor a child.)
From an article in The Epoch Times:
- Get inspired by reading blogs you love (like The Writers in Residence).
- Begin with tiny stuff – make it a habit that is “too easy NOT to do.”
- Find a friend or family member for support.
- And lastly, don’t call them NEW YEAR’S RESOLUTIONS, rename them as “January Objectives” or maybe even “Today’s List.”
(And check those buggers off! I’ll celebrate with you.)
For me, three for ’22:
- Try new recipes from my “Eating Clean” cookbook at least twice a week.
- Shorten my “screen time” by half (PC and phone). Use a timer if needed.
- Cut out sugar (again) to help with inflammation issues.
(And YOU can check on ME at the end of the month/year. Really!)
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Our Faith Bible Church pastor gave us this verse for the year:
Romans 12:9b. “Detest evil; cling to what is good.”

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Did you notice how small our world became during the Covid-19 lock-down?
USA Today bestselling author Sara Rosett writes lighthearted mysteries for readers who enjoy atmospheric settings, fun characters, and puzzling whodunits. She loves reading Golden Age mysteries, watching Jane Austen adaptions, and travel. Publishers Weekly called Sara’s books “enchanting,” “well-executed,” and “sparkling.”
Thank you, Jackie! I’m a native of California, I was born and raised in the Pasadena area. My husband and I still live here, although we have talked about living elsewhere that is less expensive. I have two adult sons and two adorable granddaughters. We live in a condominium with two precious pups, Minnie, a mellow Maltese, and Mandy, a very precocious Terrier mix. They keep us on our toes and give us hours of unconditional love and fun!
Cache Under the Stacks was published in August 2018, and Starting Over was published December 2019. Both books I “pantsed,” but now I am trying to outline and it is not as easy for me. I’m working on a sequel to Cache Under the Stacks and a sequel to Starting Over, a woman’s fiction that has evolved into a bit of a mystery.
BOOK REVIEW: Cynthia (pen-name Claire Naden) published Cache Under the Stacks, A Cate Wagner Mystery, two years ago, and I have just found and read it. It’s a story about a divorced, empty-nester bookstore owner, living alone in a nice neighborhood with her sweet pup, Minnie.
Here’s a suggestion for wannabe authors. You’ve pondered that writing project for years; now you have time to get those ideas down on paper (or computer, or recording device). What would it take to turn that dream into a manuscript?
I’ve opened membership to this site on a temporary basis. Here’s a place for you to learn about the author’s journey from “aspiring” to “avid.” Find out how to improve your writing, where to market your work, and ways to research trends in the industry. Get questions answered from an author who’s been there.
I’m a semi-retired college English instructor and published author with a doctorate in English composition. I self-published the Self-publishing Guide in 1979 and went on to self-publish print versions of a mystery series and several non-fiction books. I’ve given workshops through libraries, bookstores, writers organizations, and continuing education departments and have written for writers’ newsletters, homeschooling blogs, inspirational magazines, and publications such as the Des Moines Register.
In closing, I have a request for writers in this group.
A Pretty Little Plot
The Stolen Star
A Daughter’s Doubt
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